So dh and I have been talking about Adoption. I have found a site that I really like but you have to be 25-50 and I'm only 23 ugh! But its a good thing in a way. Thats gives dh and I 2 years to pay off all of our bills and start a adiotion fund and save as much money for it. I was told that it could cost 15,000-50,000 so we def would have to save some moeny. And by the time I a 25 it will be right at out 5 year mark of ttc. So we are still going to be ttc and just go from there and see where we are at in two years. I have always thought about adoption even if we didnt have ttc problem. Its something I have always wanted to do so even if we did have a child maybe we would do it anyways.